A man is coming onto me, and I need to establish boundaries!

[Matthew Mussolini]

This is in the occult section because it is all about pleasing Mussolini and the Kami.

So, there is this likeable Cambodian immigrant who lives with me who often approaches me and wants to always go on walks with me, interrupt me while I'm praying or meditating or on the computer.

When we went for a walk today he said, "We should hold hands".

I laughed and told him "no, I'm not into holding guys hands".

I actually don't technically know if the man is gay. It seems clear he is at least bisexual, but I don't feel like asking him.

Bottom line is, I know what rejection feels like. It hurts. I don't want to put him through that kind of pain. Mussolini made it clear that even though he is not a fan of homosexuality, he knows they cannot choose to be straight, and he has too many faults to judge anyone for having faults. Benito, Rachael, and the Kami want me to love all people.

I have so many problems, that I should not judge others either.

But I need to establish healthy boundaries. He keeps talking about how he wants to take me places when we get out.

It does make me uncomfortable.

I do actually have street smarts, and am not naïve. I'm actually quite cynical when it comes to friendly people, and don't trust them.

At the same time, I ask myself "What would Mother Teresa, Buddha, Gandhi, Saint Francis of Assisi, Benito Mussolini, or Jesus do"?



I also need to be conscious of not hurting people, and sometimes you have to be nice/charitable, even when being nice has consequences. As Mother Teresa said, "Love until it hurts". Jesus said to give to those who beg. It makes the Kami happy.

I'm sure when people see me hanging out with this guy a lot, they already probably wonder if we are doing something gay. I really could care less what they think.

I feel he is a suffering person and to a certain extent I'm supposed to relieve his suffering to please the Kami and Mussolini, because the patient says it makes him very happy hanging out with me. Do unto others what you would have them do unto you.

When I relieve the suffering of others, it relieves the suffering of Benito Mussolini, the upside down Caesar of Rome, and Jesus Christ, the crucified King of the Jews.

But I need to establish boundaries as well. Let me know if you have any thoughts. Thanks!

[Matthew Mussolini]

Okay.

Turns out, in Cambodia, guys hold hands.

So...maybe he isn't gay.

[Vanilla Gorilla]

Okay.

Turns out, in Cambodia, guys hold hands.

So...maybe he isn't gay.

Cambodian guys also suck each other off as a form of greeting, so it's not gay if you do it with a Cambodian

[Din Djarin]

You might indeed be at odds with your inner self, embrace the homo in you, good sir!

[lode]

Okay.

Turns out, in Cambodia, guys hold hands.

So...maybe he isn't gay.

I lived in Cambodia for a year. Phnom Penh mostly. While I have read this on some sort of travel blog, I never saw men there holding hands. My suspicion is this is an anachronism, something that happened quite a bit in old timey times, but is rare now.

[rolling]

that lady you stalked tried to establish boundaries...you ignored them and likely still are......ive heard of dudes waking up to being blown by the neighbor.....it feels good bro, try it

[Din Djarin]

You don't know his neighbour

[rolling]

skip to 3.40....sleepolini is on the couch ....these poorly titled threads will attract my attention duce....

[Amerijuanican]

Now I know why I don't watch tv much these days. Thanks for the reminder.