What's it like being bisexual?

[Matthew Mussolini]

Just curious if you are attracted to both genders what that might feel like in your own words.

[Matthew Mussolini]

See, I would think it would be like using uppers with downers together. In my experience one cancels the other out.

I have to simply choose one or the other for it to be truly enjoyable or at least to reach it's full effects.

I mean, don't get me wrong, when I see a guy like neonspectraltoast I can tell he's dead sexy and God's gift to women, but that doesn't mean he, or any guy, gives me arousal though
( including the historical figures I rant and rave about. They excite me, but not sexually.)

(even though I tag neon more than I tag any woman it's because I know he wont flag me for stalking )

[Matthew Mussolini]

And I envy him...

I actually did have a guy in high school that I got an actual gay attraction to because he was always talking about all the girls he boned ,

and he told the stories with such eloquence and sincerity I didn't think he was making any of it up,

...and he would read me the letters girls wrote to him, and I began to see the girls in him like they were a part of him or something, so when around him I'd get excited like that.

Super creepy!

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[Undies]

i'm not bisexual, but i'm almost positive it's nothing like mixing uppers and downers.

[Matthew Mussolini]

i'm not bisexual, but i'm almost positive it's nothing like mixing uppers and downers.

I was speaking more figureatively like you're attracted to two polar opposites.

[Din Djarin]

It's like being able to be sexually attracted to both genders. We're technically all bisexual, even though I'm saying that as a man who's only into heterosexual/cisgender sexual interactions

[tumbling.dice]

I'd love to find a married (m-f) couple. Been close twice but hasn't happened yet.

[6-eyed]

I was in an male male female 3-some once. The only position we did was I got to do her doggie style in the back, and he got her mouth in the front. And we did the Eiffel-Tower position.

Technically that's not bisexual at all. But that's as far as I'll ever go. Sharing a woman with a man.

[Jessica]

i think it's just like.. the gender isn't a factor. like how dark or blonde hair might not be a factor in you being attracted to women? you could say they were "opposites" too, but you're just attracted to both. i'm not bisexual though. i'm just guessing.

i'm bi-cerebralattractionual.

[Din Djarin]

I was in an male male female 3-some once. The only position we did was I got to do her doggie style in the back, and he got her mouth in the front. And we did the Eiffel-Tower position.

Technically that's not bisexual at all. But that's as far as I'll ever go. Sharing a woman with a man.

Isn't that called tower bridging? :P

And yes, I think technically being in a threesome with another man has an undeniable bisexual aspect. But wether a partaking person acknowledges that is up to them of course! It definitely does not mean they have to primarily identify as bisexual

[Irminsul]

I disagree because two men don't have to touch one another. Two females will be more enclined to, they're more curious. But if two males aren't touching one another then just seeing another naked man doesn't make you attracted to men.

[6-eyed]

Isn't that called tower bridging? :P

And yes, I think technically being in a threesome with another man has an undeniable bisexual aspect. But wether a partaking person acknowledges that is up to them of course! It definitely does not mean they have to primarily identify as bisexual

Tower Bridging... I like that.
But the guy and I gave each other high-fives. So it formed the Eiffel Tower. If the fact that I gave him a high-5 while sharing the same chick makes me bi, then so be it. LOL

[Din Djarin]

Being in a threesome with another man is technically a bisexual act, even though you might not focus on the other man at all (in fact even if you focussed on not touching the other man, besides the high fiving lol)

[lion1978]

I don't know what to answer, I've always been bisexual, and so that is all I know wht is like. But I'm loving it