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    At what point should the media be forbidden to promote sexual immorality?

    Sexual repression isn't exactly the answer but I explain in this video getting exposed to porn at age 8 and how quickly it totally fucked my brain up irreversibly and saying my fantasies were psychopathic by age 10 is to put it mildly.

    Obviously, there is no consensus on what sexual immorality is, but I'm about ready to seriously try another crusade against it. I keep trying to maintain purity of heart but who knows, it could be irreversible. Maybe not. The culture really promotes, enables, and encourages being a shallow minded creep and using people.

    There has to be some way to release built up tension other than fornication, sex in marriage , and porn, and that would help a lot of people with their porno addiction.

    My concern has more to do with children who get exposed to it. A society of sexually perverted people with no control of their passions, is a society in decay.

    Yes, abortion is often homicide according to the definition of homicide being one human being killing another, but a media glorifying being a stud and shaming chastity is creating pigs that get a bunch of girls pregnant and then like cowards leave them, so the nicest thing the mother can do for the kid is simply kill it.

    If I was a lot of these babies born into the misery I've seen in some of the environments I've lived, I want my mother to kill me in the womb.

    I don't know what the answer is precisely, but the filth in the media and the music I listened to growing up glorified being a piece of shit, as if I wasn't bad enough. I felt under pressure to be a bigger piece of shit than came natural.

    At what point is sexuality something the media should be forbidden to promote. Obviously child porn. What else? I'm not saying a photo of nude people on the beach should be banned, because that isn't necessarily pornographic.

    All I know is porn caused me to look very disrespuctful and in disgusting ways at the photos at that young age that turned into a very unhealthy obsession that spiraled out of control into madness.

    I was a relatively healthy child before then. No signs of being a criminal or psychopath. I'm not playing the victim. I think society as a whole has been victimized. I became more of a monster than the average, but no more a victim per say.

    I think a lot of innocent people get hurt from this stuff.


    #2
    I don't blame the media, I blame capitalism. Sex sells. So everything gets hypersexualised. I'm kind of tired of seeing popstars dancing like strippers being labelled as "female empowerment". It's not empowering if another woman can't get the same level of attention and money without sexualising themselves too.

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      #3
      And I'm not anti-porn in theory.. but I don't think we've even begun to see the effect of thousands of teenagers having unlimited access to unlimited amounts of it since they were 12.

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        #4
        The media needs to promote more sexuality, not less. In American culture, sexuality is a taboo to be hidden away. But at the same time, we're obsessed with it. Why? Because we're human, and sex and sexuality is part of the human experience. We take something completely normal and good, and repress it and hide it in the shadows. We need to normalize it and make it an acceptable topic to address.

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          #5
          I thought that happened in the 1960s.

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            #6
            Originally posted by Jessica View Post
            I don't blame the media, I blame capitalism. Sex sells. So everything gets hypersexualised. I'm kind of tired of seeing popstars dancing like strippers being labelled as "female empowerment". It's not empowering if another woman can't get the same level of attention and money without sexualising themselves too.
            You can't say that in America! Lol

            The word Feminism is about as toxic here as the N word.

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              #7
              Originally posted by everything bagel View Post
              The media needs to promote more sexuality, not less. In American culture, sexuality is a taboo to be hidden away. But at the same time, we're obsessed with it. Why? Because we're human, and sex and sexuality is part of the human experience. We take something completely normal and good, and repress it and hide it in the shadows. We need to normalize it and make it an acceptable topic to address.
              Sexuality can't be portrayed in ways that people objectify each other, use each other, manipulate each other, disrespect and degrade one another, and still be considered good for society. The culture has become far less safe for children the more sexually addicted and perverted people become.

              I'm not against nudity by any stretch. I'm not advocating oppression either. But all I know is I need to get purity of heart and mind. There is something not right about sexual obsessions or being preoccupied with it.

              It wasn't a problem before exposure to pornography and things got rapidly out of control after that. Plus, women getting strangled and their corpses fucked as they gaze lifelessly with tongue hanging out or a slit throat is just a few clicks away all the time.

              Is it really okay for people to find entertainment and pleasure in such things?

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                #8
                I'm not quite sure where you're going with all this, Matt, but you might find this interesting

                Internet Porn Prevents Rape

                More Porn, Less Sexual Assault

                The True Link Between Porn and Rape

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                  #9
                  You might like this video Matthew Mussolini , I watched it within a couple weeks of when it was released. Doyle shares similar views to you on the topic such as asserting porn is destructive for society, particularly destructive for boys.



                  How Porn Is Destroying You and Our Country


                  Last edited by Audiogen; 04-27-2021, 11:07 PM.

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                    #10
                    i'm really not sure how porn is supposed to be hurting anything. guys have been horny for millions of years; we wouldn't even be here otherwise. i saw some old playboys when i was pretty young, but i had all kinds of sexual thoughts long before i ever saw any hardcore porn. porn just helps people get that release without having to get all rapey about it.

                    i'm also not sure where you're finding that necrophilia porn you mentioned in one post, but thankfully i don't think it's really as easy to find as you imply. that's something you have to actively search out.

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                      #11
                      A rapist may be jerking off to porno instead of raping someone, but there is still a reason why someone with no empathy enjoys pornography so much.

                      It is of the nature of pornography to undermine "feelings." Half the people who read that sentence will react by saying feelings are a joke, so you see what I mean.

                      BUT men DO have feelings, quite often, and this utter rejection of their personhood by what is supposed to be the nurturer can make them very, very angry.

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                        #12
                        I mean, yeah, it's a good release for rapists...?

                        For everyone else it's like, yep, that's what happened to someone's daughter.

                        But it's okay, because "sex is no big deal." "Sex is nothing."

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                          #13
                          Originally posted by Audiogen View Post
                          You might like this video Matthew Mussolini , I watched it within a couple weeks of when it was released. Doyle shares similar views to you on the topic such as asserting porn is destructive for society, particularly destructive for boys.



                          How Porn Is Destroying You and Our Country


                          Amen!

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                            #14
                            Originally posted by everything bagel View Post
                            I'm not quite sure where you're going with all this, Matt, but you might find this interesting

                            Internet Porn Prevents Rape

                            More Porn, Less Sexual Assault

                            The True Link Between Porn and Rape
                            That doesn't make sense though, because all the evidence suggests that before hardcore porn was legal in certain countries, rape and sex killings and other sex crimes was less of a problem.

                            My Dad said even when he was a kid there were never any school shootings and there wasn't the problem we have today with rape, pedophilia, and sex killers, or the problem with unwanted pregnancies.

                            Also, female porn stars are famous for dying young. I'm sure that has something to do with slut shaming, but also, getting used by guys all the time and having them look at you in disgusting ways has to really be disturbing, if not traumatic.

                            Plus they get abused a lot too.

                            Another thing is simply I have the ability to discern some things. People addicted to porn are not as kind to other people. I know this to be true. If I have been going on long porn binges it becomes increasingly difficult to be chivalrous or be kind to others , and it can straight up make a person vicious as well.

                            When I abstain from porn as I have been doing these last few weeks, I'm less irritable, more able to love people, feel less icky, feel less creepy, have more self-control, and am altogether more happy. And when I look in the mirror, I simply like the guy I see far more than if my mind has been filled with sexual perversions all the time.

                            The reason porn doesn't prevent rape is because people start to get more and more addicted and obsessed with a sexual fantasy. Eventually they need to use people , and the pornography sends the message that it's okay to use people.

                            Even boyfriend and girlfriend who consent are often using each other, and it does cause them mental and emotional problems, whether they admit it or not. I've seen it in others and experienced it myself. I've talked to too many sex addicts who say they feel a natural shame about that lifestyle , they just pretend it's all great and act like it's liberating , for the same reason I act like crystal meth is great.

                            It's because it's hard to live without it so I justify it. It's not going to kill me, because crystal meth doesn't kill people from overdose, but deep down I know it's ruining my life. However, many times I have glorified it's pros and refused to mention it's cons.

                            The same is true of pornography and sex addicts. They justify it and mention the pros. But I'm not convinced even slightly that people who obsess about sex all the time and spend enormous amounts of time in front of a screen masturbating , truly believe there is nothing wrong with that.

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                            #15
                            I'd bet all my money, that without exception, every sex offender and sex killer is into pornography if it's available to them, and it made them more perverted when they were exposed to it.

                            That doesn't mean most porn users are like that, but I know it fucks a person up and makes them more likely to hurt others and makes them more selfish.
                            Last edited by Matthew Mussolini; 04-28-2021, 05:54 AM.

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                            • everything bagel
                              everything bagel commented
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                              And this too

                            • Matthew Mussolini
                              Matthew Mussolini commented
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                              Let's just put it this way. I have known an extremely large amount of perverts and sex offenders because I have been in jails and the department of corrections many times. Not one exception did I find where a sex offender did not have a porn obsession.
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