If you are a responsible person with many sex partners, and it isn't causing problems in your life, I can respect your lifestyle then. I'm happy for you as that would actually be cool to accomplish that in a way that is healthy for everyone.
My experience is it causes shit loads of problems.
Problem is, there is something in our culture in general that is really damaging to us psychologically and I just get really passionate about fighting it.
Jessica kind of inspired this but:
I wish these sites would actually warn a guy about the risks involved when you keep seeing these adds advertising "Local horny sluts and nympho bitcheses" in your area. (First off, you can tell with a choice of words like that how much these pornography sites actually respect women and why so many porn stars are dying of drug overdoses and suicide at a young age or sometimes even murder.)
But when a pack of cigarettes is sold, there is a warning that it can give you cancer or multiple health problems. At a pornography site no one tells these men they can get their brains blown out or castrated if these women have a boyfriend or husband.
Neither is there any mention of sexually transmitted diseases, two of which I have had.
Here are some interesting facts about sex I'd like to share via youtube but it isn't for all audiences as there is some fowl language and some of the content could be triggering or disturbing , but I feel it needs to be said as our culture commits suicide and Civilization decays.
Yes, sexual immorality destroys relationships, causes violence, murder, drug addiction, Fatherless children, PTSD (even when both people consent), suicide, abortion, wasted potential, stupidity, immaturity, no self control, sociopathic tendancies, lower ability to concentrate well, poor work ethic, divorce, break up of the family, and other problems.
And yes, all of those can cause Civilization to decay , and many Civilizations have died. A nation where the people become stupid, immoral, have no self-discipline, or sex crazed doesn't become a nation more likely to get overrun and conquered or have a bloody revolution, civil war, or corrupt regime seize power, or more likely to implode, I'm sure. *sarcasm* It will have far more crime as well.
I made this youtube involving sex education, but before you watch it , be aware that there is fowl language . Sexual talk about the damage multiple partners, lust, and hedonistic lifestyle does can be unpleasant to talk about. But it needs to be talked about and it's too taboo to talk about. That does damage too.
I had a guy physically aggress on me multiple times and him and I were cool before he found out his girlfriend was texting me nude images of herself. Thing is, he was using my phone to text her , and those texts were for him anyway (I think). I don't know why him and I got into physical fights or not, but his attitude did change over that.
Another friend was very angry his significant other was in my apartment and I wasn't answering when he knocked. She was likely gone as well as I was probably gone when he was knocking but he didn't believe me.
I mentioned a significant other, also Latino finds a white boy in his apartment, in his bed, with his girl, after midnight, in the ghetto. Fortunately we were both fully clothed. You can imagine I feel guilt about that still. But it's also naturally something that my conscience tells me isn't okay with that behavior , some of what takes place in situations where two people have no love or commitment, and my feelings of guilt are completely independent of Religious Doctrine or text.
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