Arguing with you significant other

[Guest]

Do you argue?
myself and my wife rarely, if ever, argue.
before in relationships, I thought it was as a part in being in a relationship.

[Guest]

Kindness

[everything bagel]

I mean, we've had disagreements. Not a true argument. Arguments seem like yelling should be involved. My gf never raises her voice and me? Shit, I just internalize and and don't talk to you for 2-3 days

[everything bagel]

Wait what? Jessica you say that like I've done that to you

[Jessica]

not really, i just felt you withdrew for a while after our brief veganism argue/debate back on hip
but also i knew i could be imagining it.
your post here reminded me and think maybe not my imagination then : )

[everything bagel]

@J Ruth
I remember that discussion but I don't remember how it ended. I certainly don't remember being upset. But then I again i dont dwell on those things

[Tropical Breeze]

I've learned from the wise men before me. Never argue with a woman. You just gotta choke-ah bitch.

[Rev J]

I've learned from the wise men before me. Never argue with a woman. You just gotta choke-ah bitch.

There are 2 strategies for arguing with women. Unfortunately neither of them work.

C/S,
Rev J

[Amerijuanican]

They all get filed away in their hard drive, for repeated future reference. And that file does not delete, or change.

[Sooz]

I've learned from the wise men before me. Never argue with a woman. You just gotta choke-ah bitch.

Violence is not the answer because a woman could actually be smarter and kick you fair and square in the nuts.

if you want to protect your nuts don't harm women.

Learn to be nice to women.

You can do this. I know you can do this.

[Jessica]

Yeah this thread is going to be mostly misogynistic jokes, isn't it. I agree women can be crazy bitches but men have their own set of flaws when it comes to working out issues.

Like Geo I once assumed that arguing was a normal part of relationships, but now I don't. Me and luv do not often argue about anything real.. We get quite heated about politics and stuff, but once the debate ends, the bad feeling ends. I don't understand why it wouldn't. A differing opinion can be annoying enough to make me feel angry but it doesn't mean I love him any less, so why would I let the bad feeling spill into real life? If I need a minute, I might take five minutes quiet alone time and then simply return to normal life, give your partner a kiss and talk about something else.

I have come to think this is quite unusual but as far as I'm concerned once a debate is over, life is exactly as it was before. It's obviously important not to get personal while angry though.

Arguments about stuff in your lives or relationship should be dealt with like Geo said.. Kindness. Stop thinking about the wrong that you feel has been done to you, and really try to put yourself in their shoes. This is someone you love, so try to remember that even if you think they're being unreasonable, it MIGHT be you who isn't getting something.

[Amerijuanican]

Sounds like I need a litmus test kit for crazy gals.

[eggsprog]

Sometimes we argue about insignificant things, but usually not for long and we don't really yell or anything like that. I've gotten better over the years at pausing to consider if I actually think I'm right, or if I'm just being defensive because of embarrassment/shame/anger/whatever.

[Tropical Breeze]

Violence is not the answer because a woman could actually be smarter and kick you fair and square in the nuts.

if you want to protect your nuts don't harm women.

Learn to be nice to women.

You can do this. I know you can do this.

Thanks for your words of encouragement. I shall do my best to stop choking bitches.

[Tropical Breeze]

Well if you do get into an argument with your significant other. Its always best to make sure you get the last word and win the argument. That's more important than anything. Hopefully they'll eventually realize that they are always wrong and that arguing with you is a losing battle and shouldn't be done. Especially if you are a man. Losing an argument to a woman makes you less of a man. ?

[Amerijuanican]

Um, have you ever lived with a woman in the US?

[neonspectraltoast]

My girl knows better than to back sass me. I kill any woman who tries to sass me up.

[GLEN......]

Well if you do get into an argument with your significant other. Its always best to make sure you get the last word and win the argument. That's more important than anything. Hopefully they'll eventually realize that they are always wrong and that arguing with you is a losing battle and shouldn't be done. Especially if you are a man. Losing an argument to a woman makes you less of a man. ?

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Cheers Glen.

[mallyboppa]

I am always right , She is always right ! two rights dont make a wrong (or summat like that !)

[neonspectraltoast]

Women are usually right. I would never argue with my significant other. Some women are just drama queens, though, and I can't stand that.

[Undies]

i'm typically pretty easygoing, at least off the internet. maybe i need to start more arguments, and someone will actually stick around a bit longer.