Explicit question

[Pete's Draggun]

Scenario

Your on a first time lunch date at Olive Garden with a cute brunette.

The date leads to going back to your home.

Your clothes come off

Her clothes come off

She goes down on you

You go down on her and *stomps on brakes *

What is that? ?




Now what?

[Jessica]

It's a mole.. isn't it?

To be sure, you ask her if she's had it checked for melanoma.

[Pete's Draggun]

To be sure, you ask her if she's had it checked for melanoma.

I would definitely ask her eventually after coitus.

But in the moment, while I'm down between her legs...... come back up to her face and ask her " what's that mole down there?"

Or is that a genital wart?

[Jessica]

Oh, puke. I just image searched genital warts.

No, it isn't a genital wart.

I know it's not the perfect way of assessing these things, but when I saw the picture you posted, my brain just said "safe". I can't describe why, just instinct. Where as the pictures I've just seen of genital warts scream "not safe".

I think errors in this method are more likely to be overcautious ones, thinking things are dangerous when they're not. So if any part of you feels concerned, yeah, don't risk it.

But, right? What a position to be in! How do you go about it even slightly politely? I do not know the answer to that..

Make sure a situation arises where you clearly see a person's genitals without getting too close, first. That's my sensible solution. Because I'm worrying too much now about what I would do in the same situation with a penis.

[Pete's Draggun]

STD's are on our 30/10/30 cannot live with's

[Jessica]

Yes they are. And yes I would NEXT a guy with genital warts.

STDs low-key terrify me. Especially learning there are some like HPV that don't come up on a test when it's dormant.

I believe there was a worry about gonnareah becoming resistant to antibiotics because of overuse.

[neonspectraltoast]

I'm searching all over the internet, but I can't find what a birth mark is.

At least you got your camera working!

One sec...

Harumph.
Rumph.
Rumph.

[Pete's Draggun]

Oral sex on a woman safely is accomplished by using a cut latex condom or Plastic wrap, cling film, Saran wrap, cling wrap, Glad wrap or food wrap.

Which all does nothing for her stimulation with those types of barriers.

[Din Djarin]

I would definitely ask her eventually after coitus.

But in the moment, while I'm down between her legs...... come back up to her face and ask her " what's that mole down there?"

Or is that a genital wart?

If I had the slightest idea it could be an std like thing like a genital wart I would verify at that moment (although if she affirmed I would be pissed she was not upfront about it in the first place..)
If it looks like the pic I would not though. I would, just like Jessica, assume its a mole. It really looks like a mole.

If it was a genital wart it just seems wrong to me to keep silent about such a thing, same with having coitus with other people when you know she likely won't dig that

[Undies]

What is that?

it's a vagina. do i win?

[Pete's Draggun]

Undies

Unfortunately, no ?