Been doing research on marriage.......
Off topic
especially failed ones due to male Beta-ism.
but I digress....
.....where was I, oh marriage 2.0. When single men and women start reaching into their late 30s and beyond having failed relationships under their belts, I'm my opinion, marriage will be not so relished.
A single career woman who owns her own car, has her own residence, hobbies, friends, day life, night life, alone time....doesn't need marriage.
A single career man who owns his own car, has his own residence, hobbies, friends, day life, night life, alone time....doesn't need marriage either.
So..... you take this single woman dynamic (chocolate) and this single man dynamic (peanut butter) ......put them together......you have a pretty sweet tasting relationship without marriage.
The biggest problem with marriage (other than beta males) I digress.........is each other's alone time, in which builds a special feeling when you miss someone's love and/or time together. That feeling is "anticipation and desire" to see that special someone sooner rather than later after you've been fulfilled with alone time. It's a hard task to get adequate and nurturing alone time living under the same roof.
Many women I've dated, needed days of alone time. Which was awesome because I took my needed days of alone time.I obviously had less alone time in dating multiple women at once, but it didn't bother me in the least..
That time away from each other's capacity is essential to a healthy relationship. Not to mention the mental self health it brings to each person as well.
These thoughts of mine might flux into YFM's topic of attachment theory. Not sure if this crosses over.
In my humble opinion, Marriage 2.0 for me is no legal paper saying we're married. Just a deeply committed physical and emotional relationship that has separated living conditions that's not under the same roof.
Well....I'm off to go get cut ✂️
Peace 5000 G!
Off topic
especially failed ones due to male Beta-ism.
but I digress....
.....where was I, oh marriage 2.0. When single men and women start reaching into their late 30s and beyond having failed relationships under their belts, I'm my opinion, marriage will be not so relished.
A single career woman who owns her own car, has her own residence, hobbies, friends, day life, night life, alone time....doesn't need marriage.
A single career man who owns his own car, has his own residence, hobbies, friends, day life, night life, alone time....doesn't need marriage either.
So..... you take this single woman dynamic (chocolate) and this single man dynamic (peanut butter) ......put them together......you have a pretty sweet tasting relationship without marriage.
The biggest problem with marriage (other than beta males) I digress.........is each other's alone time, in which builds a special feeling when you miss someone's love and/or time together. That feeling is "anticipation and desire" to see that special someone sooner rather than later after you've been fulfilled with alone time. It's a hard task to get adequate and nurturing alone time living under the same roof.
Many women I've dated, needed days of alone time. Which was awesome because I took my needed days of alone time.I obviously had less alone time in dating multiple women at once, but it didn't bother me in the least..
That time away from each other's capacity is essential to a healthy relationship. Not to mention the mental self health it brings to each person as well.
These thoughts of mine might flux into YFM's topic of attachment theory. Not sure if this crosses over.
In my humble opinion, Marriage 2.0 for me is no legal paper saying we're married. Just a deeply committed physical and emotional relationship that has separated living conditions that's not under the same roof.
Well....I'm off to go get cut ✂️
Peace 5000 G!
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