I just ran into the pretty girl at Target again!!

[PacificDude]

I don't know. Maybe it's destiny or fate? She was not so friendly or flirtatious as before, but who can blame the poor girl? What I said to her (before) was totally wrong. And it's been bothering the hell out of me ever since.

So as usual (she was looking at the DVDs), so I made it a point to pretend I was gonna buy another one. Fact is, I have way too many DVDs - but I only buy them when they are practically free!

She was looking at Romancing the Stone (good flick), but it was $14.99! I said hello to her, and told her I was sorry for being so rude and abrupt w/her during our last encounter.

She just wondered why I felt the need to lie to her - especially since I was not even wearing a wedding ring! Chicks notice this shit!

Anyway, I bought the Romancing the Stone movie for her as a way to make amends. And I told her I'd love to watch it w/her big time.

I gave her my digits, and she promised to bring plenty of popcorn! haha :-)

[PacificDude]

[Jessica]

aw.. so you have a date? : )
i hope you have fun.

i mean, i'd rather a guy lie about having a wife because he's celibate and doesn't know how to say so than lie about NOT having a wife because he's trying to cheat on her. You should just say you're a kind of monk. A treefort monk. or a treefort monkey. anyway i hope this is a rewarding friendship you have found

[PacificDude]

Jessica I like that big time - I'm a TF monk... haha. Keep tabs on my avatar :-)

[rolling]

they opened and closed a target in my city less than a year....i walked through it once to get to my car......i dont go to those types of big box stores any more


i shop local when ever possible......i dig mom and pop

[Lynnbrown]

In my small southern town, its still big enough for mom n pop stores to survive, but lately - with the pandemic...they have closed shop. The vast majority didn't even try past a few months. I'm not judging...I'm relating what I saw. These dang big box stores are about all there is now that has everything you need.

[rolling]

oh ya good luck with the lady.....isnt that the one they find the weed in the downed plane?....have a joint ready for each of you

[Din Djarin]

I just noticed last night that Romancing the stone is available on Disney+ Star stuff (latest addition on there). Lots of standard stuff like Scrubs, Modern family etc but also some stuff i dig watching again. Like the Alien movies (too bad and stupid Prometheus is the only one missing...)

I have very good memories watching stuff like Romancing the Stone and Jewel of the Nile etc. with esp my mom (i was a kid back then mind you! :P ). She loved those kind of movies in the 90s.
I don't get dating sexually attractive women when you're celibate btw. Otherwise i wouldn't mind going with Romancing the stone myself on a date
I wonder if your 'date' doesn't get the wrong idea. Why else would a guy offer to watch a romantic movie with her and even buy it for her?

[PacificDude]

I just noticed last night that Romancing the stone is available on Disney+ Star stuff (latest addition on there). Lots of standard stuff like Scrubs, Modern family etc but also some stuff i dig watching again. Like the Alien movies (too bad and stupid Prometheus is the only one missing...)

I have very good memories watching stuff like Romancing the Stone and Jewel of the Nile etc. with esp my mom (i was a kid back then mind you! :P ). She loved those kind of movies in the 90s.
I don't get dating sexually attractive women when you're celibate btw. Otherwise i wouldn't mind going with Romancing the stone myself on a date
I wonder if your 'date' doesn't get the wrong idea. Why else would a guy offer to watch a romantic movie with her and even buy it for her?

Guilt? What I said to her was wrong the first time around. Now I want to make it right.

P.S. I can watch a romantic movie with a pretty girl, eat lots of popcorn, hold her hand, etc. Just no screwing involved. BTW, she knows I'm celibate. I told her. She's cool w/it :-)

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[Din Djarin]

Lol @ holding her hand.

But good that she knows, if she gets the wrong idea its on her :P

[Undies]

I'm not a woman, but if I was and a guy said that he's celibate while asking me out, I would assume he's playing some sort of game and is totally planning on fucking.

[Lynnbrown]

PacificDude I commend you for telling her you're celebate. I promise you that the vast majority of women would "expect more". Some here may deny it, but I'm 64, and I know of what I speak. lol

That she is cool with that...I'm glad everything is going well.

[Din Djarin]

PacificDude I commend you for telling her you're celebate. I promise you that the vast majority of women would "expect more". Some here may deny it, but I'm 64, and I know of what I speak. lol

That she is cool with that...I'm glad everything is going well.

Maybe this is THE way to bed a woman that seems out of ones league! :P Just like some people feign disinterest to trigger someone's attention as a deliberate tactic

Disclaimer: i don't think OP is doing that. Also, I don't subscribe to the notion of leagues

[Lynnbrown]

I could surely be wrong...but unless you are a hot rock star, I think feigning indifference may result in being alone. lol

[PacificDude]

I'm not a woman, but if I was and a guy said that he's celibate while asking me out, I would assume he's playing some sort of game and is totally planning on fucking.

She hit on me first. LOL. She liked my romantic taste in movies ;-)

[rolling]

may i ask a very blunt question?


too late i'm asking

how celibate?.....would say?....mutual masturbation be on the table?.....dry humping to conclusion?.....not trying to be funny here but i have ''lost it'' in my pants during a makeout......is that a monk sin?

i dont know any other monks......except maybe the dude who taught carridene to snatch the pebble

[PacificDude]

may i ask a very blunt question?


too late i'm asking

how celibate?.....would say?....mutual masturbation be on the table?.....dry humping to conclusion?.....not trying to be funny here but i have ''lost it'' in my pants during a makeout......is that a monk sin?

i dont know any other monks......except maybe the dude who taught carridene to snatch the pebble

Hugging is cool. Holding hands is cool. Just no penetration... haha ;-)