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    Den of Chill

    a peaceful hangout thread

    no politics, no drama.

    if you can't be kind, be quiet.

    :-)
    Last edited by Jessica; 06-30-2021, 10:57 AM.

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    • mallyboppa
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      hope it works out for you

    #3
    ah yes..safe space science

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      #4
      When VG mentioned a forum with only the ladies and the more laid back fellas, I was like damn that sounds appealing

      Good call on creating a thread for that purpose!

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        #5
        The thread title sounds like a gentlemen's club.

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          #6
          I'll drink to that. Only because vodka is more convenient right now than lighting up a bowl or rolling a joint.

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            #7
            Originally posted by Undies View Post
            The thread title sounds like a gentlemen's club.
            The hardest thing to find in a gentleman's club is a gentleman. Not saying it's impossible...

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              #8
              I'll start it off by talking about my pointless drama lol.
              I had to put my ex that I'm going hiking with this weekend in the friend zone. As soon as we made plans I started getting anxiety because I was afraid it would get complicated, and sure enough this morning he started texting me sweet and charming things..and he is not generally a sweet and charming person ?
              Then he asked if I was seeing anyone and I told him I plan on doing the single and soul searching thing for a quite some time because I need to not be fucked up in the next relationship I'm in. And I could really just use a good friend right now.
              and then he told me my only issue was dating assholes like him haha.

              Anyways so now all that's on the table and we can hang this weekend without worrying about any weirdness. Hooray

              also I've done zero work today and spent way too much time on this here forum. Must go do work now

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              #9
              Originally posted by Meliai View Post
              my ex
              OMG! You were together for so long!

              How old is your daughter now? I've lost track. I know there will be an impact no matter what, but the age matters.

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                #10
                Originally posted by Meliai View Post
                Anyways so now all that's on the table and we can hang this weekend without worrying about any weirdness. Hooray
                That seems rather optimistic.

                Although most guys do know by this age that "single and soul searching" is just code for "not with you".

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                  #11
                  Originally posted by Meliai View Post
                  I'll start it off by talking about my pointless drama lol.
                  I had to put my ex that I'm going hiking with this weekend in the friend zone. As soon as we made plans I started getting anxiety because I was afraid it would get complicated, and sure enough this morning he started texting me sweet and charming things..and he is not generally a sweet and charming person ?
                  Then he asked if I was seeing anyone and I told him I plan on doing the single and soul searching thing for a quite some time because I need to not be fucked up in the next relationship I'm in. And I could really just use a good friend right now.
                  and then he told me my only issue was dating assholes like him haha.

                  Anyways so now all that's on the table and we can hang this weekend without worrying about any weirdness. Hooray

                  also I've done zero work today and spent way too much time on this here forum. Must go do work now
                  I had Louie Armstrong can't we be friends kick off as I stated reading this.


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                    #12
                    Originally posted by Karen J View Post

                    OMG! You were together for so long!

                    How old is your daughter now? I've lost track. I know there will be an impact no matter what, but the age matters.
                    Well, this is actually my ex from a looong time ago, we were on and off throughout my early 20s and have always kept in touch through the years

                    But I split from my child's dad back in March. It was a long time coming, really. My son (haha) is 8. He's taking it okay. As well as can be expected, I'm sure he's internalizing a lot though and not talking about it because I did the same at his age

                    Now I'm really getting back to work, you guys are distracting !

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                      #13
                      Originally posted by Meliai View Post

                      this is actually my ex from a looong time ago
                      Oh, this is a XX.

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                      #14
                      Originally posted by lode View Post

                      I had Louie Armstrong can't we be friends kick off as I stated reading this.
                      I'm down with any fan of Louis. Now you're speaking my language.

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                      • Din Djarin
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                        I'm a fan of Louis CK Perhaps the wrong thread to mention him? :P

                      • Youfreeme
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                        Din Djarin I love him haha!

                      • Karen J
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                        Not every Louis is the same.

                      #15
                      I've had my share of exes, but there were never any kids involved. That's so different. Becoming a mom changes your life in so many ways.

                      Jessica, do you have any little ones?

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